I have some pretty cool 'rents. This blog post is an homage to them. :-)
10.23.2008
to my [parents]
Posted by Brianne H. at 6:31 PM 3 comments
Labels: family
More stupid tooth pain and other miscellany
So the tooth pain is back... Grrrr. NOT fun. That's enough of that.
Posted by Brianne H. at 2:27 PM 2 comments
9.17.2008
{Are they all yours?}
So just today I was reading Shan's blog and I came across one post that really struck a chord with me. She was saying that having four boys tends to induce many unwelcomed comments from friends and strangers alike. I can really relate because I have four boys and a girl. For a couple years I only had 4 boys. Not to mention that two are a set of twins... Here are some of the annoying, yet inevitable comments I get from strangers at the grocery store, baristas at the drivethru, etc... And to lighten the mood, I've added what I think in my head. :-)
How many are there? (More than you could handle, so don't worry about it.)
Are they all yours? (Yes, they are. I'm not toting this many kids around just for the fun of it.)
How old are you?!? (Not really any of your business, but I'm 26. Got problems with that? Yeah I know you can't imagine being 26 with 5 kids.)
Are you done yet? (Why the hell do you care? I'm not on welfare, I'm not asking you to babysit, and I am certainly not going to include you in the decision making process, so don't even worry about it.)
Didn't anyone ever tell you how this happens? (Crap! No! I couldn't figure out why all these kids just kept coming!!! Can YOU tell me? Jerk.)
Haven't you ever heard of birth control? (Why, yes I have. I was born this century, thanks. And for the record, it doesn't really matter does it? What if I wanted this many? Jerk.)
So are you getting fixed? (ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?!?!?!!!!! Can people actually ask that without dying of shame? That is one of the worst ones, by far.... It should be illegal.)
You must have your hands full. (Yeah, no crap. I don't need you to state the frickin' obvious. Jerk.)
You must be busy. (No, I tend to sit around all day and not really do anything. YES, I'm friggin' busy! So quit wasting my time and go away!!)
Are you Catholic or Mormon? (Why do you care? Nice stereotype.)
I hope you've gotten your tubes tied. (This goes right up there with the getting fixed one.... 'Nuff said. Jerk.)
Wow, I'm glad it's you and not me! (Yeah, me too! I wouldn't want your jerk-self raising my kids! Jerk.)
Yeah, and there are more.... And yes, I know I get cynical and crass, but it's one of those things that's uninvited and completely unneccessary. I don't want your comments unless they are positive. Now, I have to admit that I get a fair share of those as well, but the negative ones seem to cancel those out.... Bottom line is I love my kids and wouldn't trade them for the world!!!
Moral of story: If you see someone with a lot of kids, don't be a jerk. Say they're lovely and you admire momma for her strength, even if you don't mean it. That will put a smile on her face and make her day. :-)
Peace
-b
Posted by Brianne H. at 1:11 PM 10 comments
Labels: family
9.07.2008
Ahhh, finally! ;-)
I'm back! It's been awhile, I know, but here I go again!
and make you feel what words cannot do. I should post some sort of "What I'm playing on my
ipod lately" type deal, but I have thousands of songs... Kinda hard to just pick a few.
back, so I upgraded to the newer, smaller, BETTER Blackberry Curve.
get one!!! They really don't call it a "Crackberry" for no reason!
Hopefully I'll be back on here a lot more in the near future so as not to upset you all!
My apologies. ☹
Until then, ladies and gentlemen... ☮Peace☮
Posted by Brianne H. at 6:57 PM 3 comments
4.22.2008
♽ Happy Earth Day ♽
For all you treehuggers out there, today is your day!! ;) Actually technically it's the Earth's day, but it doesn't know the difference, so I'll give it to you greenies. ☮ Let's all go plant a tree!
Don't get me wrong, I'm a huge supporter of all things green and environmentally friendly, but I think lately it's more of a fad and the cool thing to do. It's kinda sad, really. I guess if your need to "be doing the coolest thing" is what gets you to go more "green", then that can only help. My issue is that in a year when everyone moves on to something else, what good will it have done? Really? If you have a strong opinion otherwise, feel free to share. I'd love to hear it.
P.S.- I used to own a green cleaning business, so I know quite a bit about this subject. Soon I'll post a "My favorite green cleaners" post. ;) Look forward to it!
In other not-so-good-news, I had to put my cat down yesterday. :(
VERY sad.
Her name was Naya and she was such a good kitty. Only 8 mos. old, but had Feline Infectious Peritonitis. She was pretty much doomed from the start. Here's a quick pic:
That's me loving on her. ;) She looks a little scared. He he. The vet said to wait at least 6-8 weeks before getting another cat to make sure all of the FIP virus is out of the house. And don't worry folks, it's not catchable by humans.
Okay, I wish you all a wonderful earthy day!
xoxo
Posted by Brianne H. at 9:40 AM 2 comments
2.26.2008
{parents/divorce, research papers, finals nearing}
*sigh*
My parents. 33 years of marriage. Getting divorced.
How does one deal with that? I'm not sure.
The good and bad news about dealing with it is that I have two research papers due this week (of course I haven't started them...) and I have finals nearing. Lots to do when that is thrown in with my regular routine of raising 5 children. Yikes. I just realized how insane I look to the outsider. :-)
The Blackberry is still my best buddy. My ipod is still regularly in use. Just to update there. ;) I feel like such a techie.
On another note, you'll all have to forgive my blog style. I am still learning how to blog and how to word things that might make sense to some of you. Let me know if you have any comments/suggestions/questions/gripes. I can handle it. ;)
Until next time, have a wonderful week! Wish me luck on the papers!
B
Posted by Brianne H. at 2:13 PM 5 comments